✔️ Healing is necessary before a healthy connection can form.
✔️ True love takes time to build.
4. Understand That Rebounds Rarely Last
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✅ Try something new—gym, travel, hobbies.
✔️ Many quick relationships don’t last because they’re based on escaping pain, not genuine connection.
✅ How do I really feel right now? Acknowledge your emotions.
Hello,hope y'all doin good, i came to Quora to share my strange story , a very weird one , a story when luck smiled at me ,maybe u will enjoy it , let's begin,have fun...
A year ago ,I was a real porn addicted(btw I was 18) ,but never had sex before, I don't have a gf I didn't try to find one even ,always thinking to go to find a sex worker but then I just don't , everyday watching different bodies getting fucked and everyday enjoying.
One day, I was watching porn, a big ass lady with big boobs ,just after seeing her the image of my female cousin poped in my mind, (let's introduce her : she's 35 years old , very big ass , nice boobs ,not very big but nice,always wearing tight clothes , she's divorced ) and I thought of me fucking her ,I never had sexual desires for her but now I do days went by and when I met her I was so horny ,I couldn't stay with the family cz my penis was clearly erected , I realized this is my first time I get horny for one of my family ,it not illegal in my country.well to make a long story short( if u want details just text me I will tell u 😊),I decided to give her signs that I want to fuck her,finally I decided to have sex and with my cousin , I thought it is the best beggining for me, i started touching her when I came across her in a narrow place , make her feel my hard cock when we hug , I thought it will hard and I will be ashamed but no , I felt nothing and she said nothing , probably she thought it was by mistake,anyways, I decided then to talk with her about sex, waited for her to be alone in a room and talk with her, I confessed everything about me watching porn and addicted..etc,she said it's normal and u are growing up and u must have sex,well at that time I was like whaaat????? Well I didn't control myself and asked her for sex ( horny like I Ve never been before) she said that she will think Abt it ,2 weeka went by then she called me ,telling that she reserved a room in a hotel and we meet tonight ,we met,and bruuhh, sex is great , I mean, I had to find a pirstitue ,what I was waiting for to have such a feeling ????, I will never forget that night, I started kissing her she was kissing hard ,she misses sex so bad , she sucked my dick and swallowed my semen ,I felt I'm in a dream , then when fucked ,her ass was very big and the anus was open ,didn't struggle to get my hard cock inside it , she was obviously missing sex , she was shouting ,fuck me yh fuck me , I go fast after every word until I cum , we did that 3 times , then we went to her pussy , using condoms I fucked her so hard the moans were higher , everything was perfect ,in the end I asked her to lick her body , licked pussy ,ass, boobs,then she sucked my cock until we sleeped ,all I know that she was dirty ,well before even having sex with her I knew she is an open minded woman , and a woman that looks that she donesnt know anything , but she knows everything, but never expected having sex with her ,well she was horny and that helped...but no one of us regretted that sex ever..
We still have sex from time to time ,and I started having sex with sex workers , joining threesomes..etc
If u want pics of her text me.
✅ Set new personal goals and start working on them.
✅ They had someone in mind even before things ended.
6. What If They Come Back?
I told my 13-year-old daughter that she should never start a fight, but has my permission to end it. She got suspended for ending a fight that some other girl picked with her by hitting her then retreating. How do I handle the school’s response?
✅ Remind yourself that appearances don’t reflect reality.
❓ Have I grown enough to know what I truly deserve?
❓ Do I really want to go back to someone who didn’t take time to heal?
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Breakups don’t define you, but how you rise after them does.
✅ Stay focused on your journey, not theirs.
1. Accept That Their Timeline Is Theirs, Not Yours
If my boyfriend watches porn, does it mean he doesn’t think I’m good enough? If I am good enough, why does he still watch? Am I not beautiful enough?
Have you ever been in this situation before? How did you handle it? Drop a comment below—your experience might help someone else going through the same thing. And if this helped, hit like and share—because everyone deserves a reminder of their worth!
✅ They were emotionally checked out before the breakup.
✅ They fear being alone and need a rebound to cope.
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If your ex jumped into something new right away, chances are it’s a rebound relationship—a distraction, not deep love.
✅ What do I need to move forward? Self-care, new hobbies, or talking to a friend?
The goal isn’t to "win" the breakup; it’s to come out stronger and more self-aware.
Why do some men want to remain single despite the fact that many women want to have a romantic relationship with them?
It’s tempting to check their social media, but this only fuels unnecessary pain. Seeing their happy posts or cute pictures can create a false illusion—people only show the best parts online.
✅ Am I growing from this? Breakups can be a chance to learn and evolve.
❓ Will this be healthy, or just a cycle of emotional ups and downs?
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Seeing your ex move on so quickly—within just two weeks—can feel like a punch to the gut. It’s natural to feel confused, hurt, or even angry. But here’s the thing: their actions don’t define your worth or your healing process.
Most of the time, the best move is to keep moving forward.
Sometimes, exes who move on too fast realize their mistake and try to return. If that happens, ask yourself:
Why am I so jealous towards couples? Why am I tired of being single and feel my life is over?
3. Don’t Stalk, Don’t Compare
✅ Reconnect with friends and family.
Instead of wondering “Why did they move on so fast?”, ask “What can I do to make my life amazing right now?”
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Instead of obsessing over their new relationship, ask yourself:
✅ Mute or unfollow if needed.
Final Thought: You Deserve Better
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5. Shift the Focus Back to YOU
2. Focus on Your Own Healing
Some people jump into a new relationship quickly because:
Your ex moving on quickly doesn’t mean you lost—it means you now have the chance to build something real with someone who truly values you.
That doesn’t mean you should "wait" for them to realize this. Instead, use this time to become the best version of yourself.
Whatever the case, their speed of moving on has nothing to do with you. It doesn’t mean they’re happier or that your relationship was meaningless. It just means they chose a different way to deal with the breakup.
